If I am convinced my wife is going to hell, does it mean I am a bad person?

So number one, the default ruling as a Muslim, we always have to think the best of others. Why? Because only Allah knows the state of our heart and our good deeds. Yes, we may, you know, she may have done certain things that is making you feel this way, but never have specific views about whether somebody go Jannah or Jahannam individually because only Allah knows. And remember the hadith of the Prophet ﷺ that there will be people who will be from the people of Jahannam. And then what will happen is just before they die, they will do something from the people of Jannah and they will enter into Jannah because of that. And the opposite is also true. We don't know how we will end in terms of our lives. So always think good of someone. Yeah, it sounds like there's a lot of maybe underlying issues that are causing you to have these thoughts. I strongly suggest, you know, you visit your local imam or scholar or sharia council so you can go through these with them and maybe have that discussion with your wife as to why you're feeling that way. But please try to avoid, we must not make specific judgments about individuals.