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What drives men away from their wives?
One of the key aspects is when a husband does not feel appreciated. As the male, as the head of the household, he needs that masculinity to be empowered. And it can even be a small sentence, a few words here and there, but you'll really find it'll go a huge way to really helping that relationship. I'll give you a common example. A husband will come to me and he will say, my wife only makes effort, only gets dressed up when she goes out with her friends. What happens then is he starts to feel that masculine aspect, that right that he has, that his wife takes time and effort and is good for him, is being given to others. So he starts to then feel resentment because of that. That crack starts to be there. Shaitan's always there trying to widen the crack. He already feels now that he's not being appreciated. And then that compounds one thing to another. So it's really important that even the small phrases or small aspects, they make a big difference for the mental aspect, from the psychological aspect of a husband feeling appreciated.