What should I do about feeling on-and-off attracted to my husband and thinking about my ex?

Number one you need to completely forget about your ex that has to be something that's put out of your mind make a conscious effort those thoughts are from Shaitaan the whispers of Shaitaan that's number one number two focus on your husband what it is that you can try to help remedy the issue because what will happen is if you don't share any small crack Shaitaan will widen into something huge particularly you know he'll put thoughts about your ex into your mind you know where your ex was like and so on and that will make things worse in your current situation so as you mentioned let's say the attraction is on and off attraction is something that grows as well in a relationship so certain things that maybe you would like your husband to do or how you'd like your husband to be those things need to be communicated with him in order to have a harmonious relationship communication is the key but please you know don't have any of those thoughts about your ex in your mind they're from Shaitaan and they need to be avoided