My husband has a foot fetish and watches videos; I have confronted him before but he still carries on.

Husband has a foot fetish and watches videos, does not respond when I confront him. So the first thing I would do is tell him, look, I'm trying to communicate with you. I'm trying to understand exactly what's going on, where the red lines are, but you're not responding and you have this foot fetish. You put your foot in it, pun intended. So what we need to do is refer to a third party who will listen and advise as to what we should do and what the red lines are here in this situation. And then I would ask him to suggest who he's comfortable listening to, who he would respect. Is it a scholar, an imam, a family friend, an elder, whoever it may be. But you need to involve a third party. If he's not listening to your concerns, then you need to have somebody who will be able to raise your concerns to him, who he will then listen to, inshallah. Any other comments or suggestions, let me know in the comments.