Husband refuses intimacy for weeks or months, watches bad TV until 3 a.m., but has no time for me.

Okay, so this is a little bit concerning because his mind in terms of is geared towards intimacy, if that's the things that he's watching, but he's not engaging in it, meaning that as a male, he will be fulfilling that desire in some way, shape or form. So that is very concerning, particularly if he's not engaging with yourself. So number one, I'll just clarify with him, look, okay, I understand these are the things that you, you know, intimacy is something which you're looking at. So why is it that you're not engaging in intimacy? Is it something different that he wants? Is it something, you know, that he's fulfilling it and elsewhere? But that conversation needs to happen. Yes, it's a sensitive conversation, but it needs to happen. Number two, marital counselling. If he's not engaging, despite showing, you know, his interest in it, marital counselling, a third party that's able to reconcile as to why he's doing this is definitely needed.