What kind of red flags to look out for in a potential spouse?

Red flags are mainly when you don't get clear answers to the questions that you're asking or certain things that you have as your criteria. For example, how many times do you pray a day? What do you do in your spare time? What's your relationship like with your family? What are your future goals? Where do you want to live after marriage? Another big one. A lot of the marital issues that I come across are when people come to me with questions about living with their in-laws and having difficulty. A lot of these could potentially be resolved by discussing it beforehand. Are you going to be comfortable living with the in-laws? Do you want to live out, for example? If so, how are we financially going to do this? Children. How many children do you potentially like in the future? When you would like to have children, for example. Work related issues. Whether you want to stay in one particular area or move to a different area. All of these things need clear answers before you go ahead.